Several months before our first child was born, my husband and I came to St. Stephen's in search of the church we would settle ourselves and our new family into. We knew immediately as we attended our first service and coffee hour that this was the place for us. The overall character and essence of the parishioners and clergy was open, inviting, supportive and lively, we connected on every level. 14 years later our family of four continues to thrive in this nurturing and fun loving church community. Our two daughters have gained a strong sense of compassion, generosity and willingness to lend a helping hand, due to the many social outreach activities they have participated in since they were very young.
Here the Search Committee will provide information and updates for those interested in becoming St. Stephen's next rector. This site will post various items about the application process, profiles of congregants, and other news about the parish that you might find interesting. We hope this will give you an opportunity to get to know us and the great parish that is St. Stephen's!Please Note: APPLICATION PROCESS CLOSES FRIDAY MARCH 18, 2011.
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Greenfield Family Profile
I found St. Stephen’s in 1994 when I visited from a local Catholic church as a volunteer for the Interfaith Hospitality Network. I stayed because I found here a family that opened its arms to strangers, welcoming them to positions of responsibility, and a church where my children learned at soup kitchens, making beds for IHN, stuffing Easter eggs and rocking AIDS babies, to support others in their times of need and to receive support in ours.
Ron Best Profile
I came to St. Stephen's in 1956. My father-in-law had just come to live with us in Short Hills. One of our first visitors was Elliot Lindsey, the then rector of St. Stephen's. It turned out he and my father-in-law had attended the same seminary. With this family connection, I became active in the church although still a Methodist. Never one to make snap decisions, I was finally received by Bishop Spong in 1992, I have served on the vestry with every rector since; serve as a Eucharistic minister and sang with the choir for 20 years.
Clarke Family Profile
I grew up and lived in many countries. Before coming to St. Stephen’s in 1987, I had attended about 32 churches. We were certainly welcomed in many. But St. Stephen’s was different, here we were drawn into the family. St. Stephen’s become “home”. Having a home and being a member of a family carries with it responsibilities. I pray that we the members and future members of this Church family can continue to welcome and care for All God’s people from every part of the world, as I have been welcomed and cared for here. Sheelagh Clarke
Warden Kathy Mullins Weekly Update Dated 2/27/11
SUNDAY WORSHIP SERVICES
Sunday February 27 - 8 AM AND 10 AM Eighth Sunday After the Epiphany The Rev. Cooper Conway, Interim Rector, Celebrant; The Rev. Karen Eberhardt, Interim Deacon, is the preacher.
IMPORTANT DATES TO REMEMBER
Sunday, February 27, 11:15 AM Matthew Price leads forum on Church Pension Group
Sunday, February 27, 4 PM Friends of Music Organ Recital by John Schucker
Friday, March 4, 7:00 PM “Parents Night Out” until 9 PM
Sunday, March 6, 11:15 Baby Shower for North Porch
Tuesday, March 8, (5:00 – 7:30 PM) Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper
Wednesday, March 9, 12 Noon and 7:30 PM Ash Wednesday Services
Sunday, March 20 Coffee Hour This is Bread Sunday
ANNOUNCEMENTS
SUNDAY FORUM. Matthew Price will be leading a forum during the coffee hour this Sunday. He will be talking about the Church Pension Group and its relationship to the parishes in the Episcopal Church as well as the clergy. This may seem like a dull topic, but the CPG, as it is known in church circles, has more to do with church life and administration than most of us realize. Matthew will give a brief history of the CPG and talk about its mission – he may even tell us what his own job, as Director of Analytic Research Strategy and Service Development, entails. The current financial stability of the CPG is of great interest to the clergy since it administers the pension fund. We will hear how each parish supports its clergy with the help of the CPG.
SUNDAY FORUM. Matthew Price will be leading a forum during the coffee hour this Sunday. He will be talking about the Church Pension Group and its relationship to the parishes in the Episcopal Church as well as the clergy. This may seem like a dull topic, but the CPG, as it is known in church circles, has more to do with church life and administration than most of us realize. Matthew will give a brief history of the CPG and talk about its mission – he may even tell us what his own job, as Director of Analytic Research Strategy and Service Development, entails. The current financial stability of the CPG is of great interest to the clergy since it administers the pension fund. We will hear how each parish supports its clergy with the help of the CPG.
Beginning in January 2013, there are some proposed changes that will affect the benefits that lay workers employed by churches and dioceses receive. Each diocese is making decisions about the extent that these recommendations will be mandated. Matthew will talk about why the changes were recommended and what decisions the Diocese of Newark has made.
At this time, members of St. Stephen’s may be thinking about how the Vestry and Finance Committee decide how much to pay a new rector. This Forum will be helpful in deepening your understanding of how some of the financial decisions affecting the hiring of a new rector are made. Certain benefits are mandated by the Diocese; others are recommended. Each year these guidelines are revised. This is your chance to ask questions. Please join the Forum on Sunday, February 27.
JOHN SCHUCKER ON THE BECKERATH ORGAN. This Sunday is the second concert of the 41st Season of the Beckerath Organ Recitals sponsored by St. Stephen’s Friends of Music. John Schucker, our own organist, will perform organ works by the gifted French composer Jehan Alain (1911-1940). This is the 100th anniversary of his birth and many concerts have been planned in his honor. The recital will begin at 4:00 PM on Sunday, February 27 at St. Stephen’s Church. A suggested donation of $10 will be accepted at the door. A reception for the artist follows the recital.
John’s commemorative program on the Beckerath will range from Variations on a Theme by Jannequin, with its Baroque-inspired treatment of a Renaissance melody, to the jaunty jazz rhythms of Aria. The centerpiece of the recital will be Alain’s award-winning Suite for Organ, in three colorful movements: Introduction & Variations, Scherzo, and Choral. The recital concludes with Alain’s best known work, the hypnotically rhythmic Litanies. Describing Alain’s music as quintessentially French, John also finds in it “influences stretching back as far as the early Gregorian chants and modes, the Renaissance, the Baroque, the more recent Impressionists like Debussy and also American jazz, which had taken root in Paris as Alain was growing up.”
Please support John Schucker, the Friends of Music and the Organ Recital Series by attending the performance this Sunday.
COMMENTS FROM COOPER.
Notes on Lent. Dear People of God: The first Christians observed with great devotion the days of our Lord’s passion and resurrection, and it became the custom of the Church to prepare for them by a season of penitence and fasting… I invite you, therefore, in the name of the Church, to the observance of a holy Lent, by prayer, fasting, and self denial: and by reading and meditating on God’s holy word. (Ash Wednesday Service, BCP)
Lent is soon upon us. It is, as the Prayerbook tells us, a time of great devotion. We mark the time by giving things up and taking things on. This year there will be special aspects to our Lent together, a couple of them are new and one will be familiar.
First, the new:
Flowers: This Lent there will be no flowers at the Altar on the Sundays in Lent. For five Sundays our Altar area may appear a bit bare. This visual “fast” reminds us that we are in a season of preparation. When we give something up, it becomes that much sweeter when it returns. If it is your custom to give memorial flowers on one of the weekends in Lent, this year, please consider honoring your loved one on his or her birthday in lieu of the anniversary of their death.
The Psalm: This year also, we will be chanting the Psalm at the 10 A.M. Eucharist. If you have been here for many years you may even remember the Chant tone from Morning Prayer Services. The Chant is simple and repetitive, in a style called Plainsong. Kim will teach us how to do it and by the end of Lent it will be second nature to us all.
There are a number of beautiful hymns in our hymnal which we have avoided using this year because they are chanted (ex. “Creator of the stars of night” #60 or “Most high omnipotent good Lord” #406). Once the community understands chant cadence, these hymns will be easy to sing. Lent is an ideal time to deepen our understanding of the Episcopal tradition.
Now, the familiar
Lent a Hand: Last year, since St. Stephen’s was at the beginning of its transition period, you did not have the opportunity to participate in the “Lent-a-Hand” program as you have done in prior years. I am pleased to announce that this year the program will be revived.
The program gives each of us suggestions and opportunities to serve, deepen family traditions and to explore spiritual practice.
The sign-up for “Lent-a-Hand” will begin at the Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper. The “Hands” which you sign will be posted on a cork board in the narthex. Please carefully consider what you can dedicate yourself to do this year during Lent.
--- Cooper Conway
SHROVE TUESDAY PANCAKES. Remember the Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper on Tuesday March 8. We need help setting up for this event, which attracts a number of people from the neighborhood. Set up starts around 4 PM. Plan to help with set up (Usually about 4 PM). The youth group will help flip the pancakes -- some adults are needed also. What other help is needed? We also need volunteers to cook sausages prior to 5 PM, people to mix batter, table setters and people to replenish table supplies (syrup, butter), someone to collect money at the door, and LOTS of people to clean up. The final and most important things is we need many people to eat pancakes! Be sure to bring your own neighbors, relatives, kids, people you meet on the train.
REMINDER ABOUT VERIDIAN. As we look to the future of St. Stephen’s Church and its ministries, we look for every opportunity to help finance our operations so that these worthwhile endeavors can continue into the future. Recently Viridian Energy joined forces with St. Stephen’s in structuring a plan to help fulfill at least part of this need. It involves you – and your participation—but it also helps you. You simply sign up for cheaper Energy through the Viridian/St. Stephen’s Fundraiser. Then, Virdian Energy will supply $2.00 per month, every month, for you and each person who supports the Church through this endeavor. To enroll, you may contact Tim Conway, Roger Riedel or Joe Stapley (their contact information is in the Church Directory) for information; or, sign up online at the website: www.Viridian.com/ststephenschurchmillburn. Simply have your Electric Bill in hand to enroll your information. This Fundraiser is open for everyone to join as well as friends and relatives. In fact, you can help expand enrollment in the Viridian/St.Stephen’s Fundraiser by sharing this information with everyone you know. Ask them to help St. Stephen’s and save some money on their Electric Bill at the same time.
HARMONIUM CONCERT. The 100-voice Harmonium Choral Society, in which St. Stephen's Music Director Kim Williams sings, presents Consider the Heavens, on March 5, at 8 p.m. and March 6, at 3 p.m. at at Morristown United Methodist Church on the Green. General admission tickets at the door are $25 ($20 for students and seniors). Advance tickets only $20/$15 (by 2/25) or $10 for groups of 10 or more at www.harmonium.org Enjoy sonorous double choir works by Vaughan Williams, Bach, W.H. Harris and Augustinas, 2 NJ premieres, and a hair-raising rendition of Dawson’s classic “Ezekiel Saw de Wheel.”
‘WELCOME SPRING’ NORTH PORCH BABY SHOWER. On March 6 Theresa Scharff, acting chair of Social Justice at St Stephen’s, will be sponsoring a special Coffee Hour to benefit the North Porch Ministry of the Diocese. The North Porch Women and Infants' Centers provide emergency seven-day supplies of formula, baby food, diapers, clothing, bed linens and other supplies for needy mothers and infants in the Newark, Paterson and Dover areas of northern New Jersey. Plan to help on March 6 by bringing donations for North Porch. The following items are needed:
Formula: Similac Advance (dark blue label), 1-quart liquid or 12-ounce powder (must be in date)
(Baby formula is always our #1 most needed item, and this type of Similac Advance is
currently recommended by the WIC assistance program); Disposable diapers sizes 4, 5 and 6
Baby toiletries. Note: NO BABY FOOD, CEREAL OR CLOTHING IS NEEDED AT THIS TIME.
(Baby formula is always our #1 most needed item, and this type of Similac Advance is
currently recommended by the WIC assistance program); Disposable diapers sizes 4, 5 and 6
Baby toiletries. Note: NO BABY FOOD, CEREAL OR CLOTHING IS NEEDED AT THIS TIME.
GOOD NEWS.
Congratulations to Dick and Trina Debevoise as they celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary.
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Warden Kathy Mullins Weekly Update Dated 2/20/11
To St. Stephen's Parishioners:
SUNDAY WORSHIP SERVICES
Sunday February 20 - 8 AM AND 10 AM Seventh Sunday After the Epiphany The Rev. Cooper Conway, Interim Rector, is the celebrant and preacher.
IMPORTANT DATES TO REMEMBER
Sunday, February 20, 11:15 AM Adult Forum "Holy Week Traditions"
Monday-Tuesday, February 21-22, Preschool Closed
Thursday, February 24, 7:30 PM Preschool Committee meeting
Friday, February 25, 7 PM Parents Night Out (PNO)
Sunday, February 27, 11:15 AM Matthew Price leads forum on Church Pension Group
Sunday, February 27, 4 PM Friends of Music Organ Recital by John Schucker
Sunday, March 6, 11:15 Baby Shower for North Porch
Tuesday, March 8, (approx. 5 PM) Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper
Sunday, March 20 Coffee Hour This is Bread Sunday
ANNOUNCEMENTS
THAT BIG WIND STORM. If you have not heard about it already, you will see when you arrive at church tomorrow that the big pine tree at the gate on Main Street blew over on Saturday during the high winds. It fell directly across Main Street -- taking out about three sections of fence as it fell. Traffic was rerouted for a couple of hours while the Millburn Public Works crew cut up the huge trunk and moved it onto the lawn. We will try to get rid of the debris this week. That will involve cutting up the rest of the tree, chipping the branches and drilling out the stump. Please be careful when you are parking tomorrow and when you are walking around the tree debris.
THAT BIG WIND STORM. If you have not heard about it already, you will see when you arrive at church tomorrow that the big pine tree at the gate on Main Street blew over on Saturday during the high winds. It fell directly across Main Street -- taking out about three sections of fence as it fell. Traffic was rerouted for a couple of hours while the Millburn Public Works crew cut up the huge trunk and moved it onto the lawn. We will try to get rid of the debris this week. That will involve cutting up the rest of the tree, chipping the branches and drilling out the stump. Please be careful when you are parking tomorrow and when you are walking around the tree debris.
RESURRECTION SINGERS. Think about joining St. Stephen's Senior Choir for the Easter season. Some people, for one reason or another, cannot manage a full rehearsal schedule, but really enjoy choral singing. We welcome these "Birth and Resurrection Choristers" to fill out our choir ranks for Christmas and/or Easter. Having this extra bank of voices enables the choir to select compositions from a broader range of choral music. Music Director Kim Williams said she hopes to hear from singers as early as possible and will delay the choice of Easter music until she knows the available mix of voices. Please think about making a short term choir commitment, and let Kim know as soon as possible if you will be singing with the choir.
FORUM- ABOUT HOLY WEEK. This Sunday Cooper Conway will lead a forum a out the liturgical traditions of Holy Week. There are a number of services that are offered in the Book of Common Prayer that have not been part of the tradition at St. Stephen's Church. She will explain how they fit into the events of Holy Week and talk about the significance of the liturgies and symbols of Holy Week. Holy Week starts with Palm Sunday and the Triumphant Entry into Jerusalem and culminates with Easter Sunday when Mary Magdalene enters the empty tomb, Cooper will show how the liturgical experience of Holy Week is designed to draw worshipers in and to speak to our imaginations. The Forum will begin about fifteen minutes into the Coffee Hour.
GREENFAITH ADVOCACY DAY. In June The Rev. Fletcher Harper, Executive Director of GreenFaith, will visit St. Stephen's to preach and to talk the organization and its work. Before this visit there is an opportunity to learn more about the advocacy work that GreenFaith does for issues surrounding the environment. Rev.Fletcher Harper said, "With environmental issues ranging from hydro-fracking to air pollution facing the New Jersey state legislature, faith-based advocacy for the environment is vitally important."
GreenFaith invites you to join this event: Trenton Interfaith Environmental Advocacy Day on Monday, March 14 from 10 AM to 3 PM. Consider attending this event. If you would like to register, paste the following URL into your browser: https://www.z2systems.com/np/clients/greenfaith/event.jsp?event=105
Join GreenFaith at the Trenton Statehouse to:
- Receive a briefing from key New Jersey environmental advocates.
- Hear from elected officials who will be addressing our group.
- Make your voice heard on behalf of the environment.
Participants will gather at the Statehouse, and GreenFaith will provide a light lunch and information about important environmental bills in the legislature. Participants are responsible for their own transportation to and from the Statehouse. Directions to the Statehouse will be forwarded to all who register. Email questions to Paul Kaufman, GreenFaith's Program Coordinator at <pkaufman@greenfaith.org>.
Learn more about GreenFaith at www.greenfaith.org.
Learn more about GreenFaith at www.greenfaith.org.
CHURCH PENSION GROUP --WHAT IT DOES/ WHY SHOULD YOU CARE. On February 27 during the coffee hour, there will be a forum. Parishioner Matthew Price, Director of Analytic Research Strategy and Service Development for the Church Pension Group (CPG), will share his insights on how the CPG affects this parish, the diocese, and clergy across the Church. This session will be particularly helpful for vestry, search committee and finance committee members. Matthew will help everyone understand how clergy compensation is figured and what goes into a compensation package.
HARMONIUM CONCERT. The 100-voice Harmonium Choral Society, in which St. Stephen's Music Director Kim Williams sings, presents Consider the Heavens, on March 5, at 8 p.m. and March 6, at 3 p.m. at at Morristown United Methodist Church on the Green. General admission tickets at the door are $25 ($20 for students and seniors). Advance tickets only $20/$15 (by 2/25) or $10 for groups of 10 or more at www.harmonium.org Enjoy sonorous double choir works by Vaughan Williams, Bach, W.H. Harris and Augustinas, 2 NJ premieres, and a hair-raising rendition of Dawson’s classic “Ezekiel Saw de Wheel.”
JOHN SCHUCKER ON THE BECKERATH ORGAN. If you have never heard John Schucker play the organ except during the worship services at St. Stephen's, you are in for a real treat if you attend next Sunday's Friends of Music organ recital. John is the featured recitalist. He will be performing organ works by the gifted French composer Jehan Alain (1911-1940). This special 100th anniversary recital will begin at 4:00 PM on Sunday, February 27 at St. Stephen’s Church. A suggested donation of $10 will be accepted at the door. A reception for the artist follows the recital.
John’s commemorative program on the Beckerath will range from Variations on a Theme by Jannequin, with its Baroque-inspired treatment of a Renaissance melody, to the jaunty jazz rhythms of Aria. The centerpiece of the recital will be Alain’s award-winning Suite for Organ, in three colorful movements: Introduction & Variations, Scherzo, and Choral. The recital concludes with Alain’s best known work, the hypnotically rhythmic Litanies.
Describing Alain’s music as quintessentially French, John also finds in it “influences stretching back as far as the early Gregorian chants and modes, the Renaissance, the Baroque, the more recent Impressionists like Debussy and also American jazz, which had taken root in Paris as Alain was growing up.”
SHOWER FOR NORTH PORCH. On March 6 Theresa Scharff, acting chair of Social Justice at St Stephen’s, will be sponsoring a special Coffee Hour to benefit the North Porch Ministry of the Diocese. The North Porch Women and Infants' Centers provide emergency seven-day supplies of formula, baby food, diapers, clothing, bed linens and other supplies for needy mothers and infants in the Newark, Paterson and Dover areas of northern New Jersey. Plan to help on March 6 by bringing donations for North Porch. The following items are needed:
Formula: Similac Advance (dark blue label), 1-quart liquid or 12-ounce powder (in date) (Baby formula is always our #1 most needed item, and this type of Similac Advance is currently recommended by the WIC assistance program); Disposable diapers sizes 4, 5 and 6
Baby toiletries. NO BABY FOOD, CEREAL OR CLOTHING IS NEEDED AT THIS TIME.
Baby toiletries. NO BABY FOOD, CEREAL OR CLOTHING IS NEEDED AT THIS TIME.
SHROVE TUESDAY PANCAKES. Mark your calendar so you remember to attend the Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper on Tuesday March 8. This is a real neighborhood event -- bring your neighbors, relatives, kids, people you meet on the train. Plan to help with set up (Usually about 4 PM). The youth group will help flip the pancakes -- some adults are needed also. What other help is needed? People to cook sausages, people to mix batter, someone to collect money at the door, people to replenish table supplies (syrup, butter), lots of people to clean up. EVEN MORE PEOPLE TO EAT PANCAKES.
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Warden Kathy Mullins Weekly Update Dated 1/30/11
To St. Stephen's Parishioners:
SUNDAY WORSHIP SERVICES
Sunday January 30 - 8 AM AND 10 AM Fourth Sunday After the Epiphany The Rev. Cooper Conway, Interim Rector, is the celebrant and preacher.
IMPORTANT DATES TO REMEMBER
Sunday, January 30, 11:15 AM Social Justice Ministries Committee meeting
Monday. January 31, 7:30 PM Preschool Committee meeting (rescheduled)
Wednesday, February 2, 7:30 PM Worship Committee meeting
Sunday, February 6 11:00 Annual Parish Meeting
Sunday, February 6 11:15 Confirmation Class
Wednesday, February 9 7:30 PM Finance Committee
ANNOUNCEMENTS
SOCIAL JUSTICE MINISTRIES MEETING. Our Parish Survey indicated that many parishioners find their work with Social Justice Ministries to be among their most meaningful activities at St. Stephen's. Parishioners young and old and entire families participate in our ministries to those in need of food, shelter, clothing and companionship. Following the 10 AM service on January 30 there will be a meeting of the Social Justice Ministries Committee in the Common Room. Attend this meeting if you are interested in the feeding, housing, neighborhood, environmental, or family programs that we support.
THE REVIEWS ARE IN. Turns out we have quite a group of stage struck extroverts in our parish. Family Fun Night was just that. It was a chance to eat fabulous food with each other, catch up on parish news, chat with newcomers and have fun. There were piano solos by Thomas Singer and Colette Ehlers and a cello performance by Jadyn Herry. We heard from Rami on the electric guitar and watched an energetic dance by one of the Maurer girls. A skit by Lucia Singer and her invisible partner - I think it was Clara - was hilarious. A large group of kids performed a very brief song. What a treat to hear the beautiful ballads performed by choir member Eleanor Konrad. Sheelagh Clarke entertained us with humorous poems and Dick Cole sang some German drinking songs, translating as well. There were likely others that I cannot recall, but you get the idea. Thanks to every person that helped with organizing or planning, set up, cooking or baking, and of course, the clean-up crew.
NOTES FROM DIOCESAN CONVENTION. This weekend was the Diocesan Convention. There will be a report from our delegates -- Fran Young, Mechelle Evans, and Tina Kelley --tomorrow during the worship service. They will give a summary of proceedings during the service tomorrow, January 30.
Our delegation was touched to hear Deacon Herb Tinning's name called out during the reading of the necrology.
INTERESTING LISTENING. The Reverend Gregory Bezilla, Chaplain at the Episcopal Campus Ministry at Rutgers recommends the online lecture God and the Art of Happiness by Dr. Ellen T. Charry, Margaret W. Harmon Professor of Historical and Systematic Theology at Princeton Theological Seminary. Follow this URL to view a video of the lecture on the topic of happiness in Christian perspective:
There is more about Professor Charry at this URL: http://www3.ptsem.edu/Content.aspx?id=1918&menu_id=72
CONFIRMATION PREPARATION. Francina de Shong and the Rev. Cooper Conway will be co-teaching three more training sessions to prepare young people seeking confirmation next year: March 13,and April 10. In addition to classes, these students will attend a Diocesan Middle School Retreat at Crossroads Camp with Cooper on March 25 - 27. Future confirmands will also assist with an Instructed Eucharist that is scheduled for Sunday May 1. If you are an adult interested in being confirmed in the Episcopal Church, speak to the Interim Rector, Cooper Conway.
CONTRIBUTION STATEMENTS FOR TAXES. This will be the last Sunday that 2010 contribution statements will be available on the table at the main door of the church. Remember to pick yours up and save us the postage. Those still remaining will be mailed to contributors at the end of the month. Thank you to everyone that contributed to St. Stephen's this year.
REMINDER: ANNUAL PARISH MEETING. The Annual Meeting will be held on Sunday, February 6 following the abbreviated 10 AM service. If you have been asked to submit a report for a committee or project for the Annual Parish Report, please get that in to the church office as early as possible this week. Come and learn what your church has been doing this past year. The Annual Meeting lasts approximately one hour.
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